I am grateful for my non-cookie cutter kids.
I am actually grateful that not only are they all different from each other, but that some of them march to the beat of their own drum.
I can say I am glad they don't always meet the expectations of their teachers and other adults in their life that for some odd reason seem to think that because their child behaves in a certain way, every other child should act, react, and think that same way.
I am glad to have a square peg or two that don't fit into the round hole.
I got an email from one of my son's teachers at school this week. She said she wanted to talk to me about his behavior at school. He likes to talk in the halls, he sang one too many ooh-la la's and cha-cha-cha's after singing the happy birthday song to a girl in the class, he tossed his lunch box in the air and caught it right before they lined up for lunch and that he is often found dancing in line.
What exactly is one supposed to do with this information? I mean i don't email her a summary of the little quirks he does that annoy me. I just emailed her back and said, "Good to know!"
Ooh la la and cha cha cha are just fun words to say. Add a little booty shake to it and bam, you've got a good time! Random things are good for the soul. Doing random things means your happy, you're breakin' out of the same routine of simply picking up your lunch box and carrying it to the lunch room. And, let it be known, that there is always room for dancing. To my kids I say, "Oh yes, there will be dancing, however, wherever and whenever you feel the need, there will be dancing." Let's not get crazy people, that is still one constitutional right that has not been touched. Let the people dance whenever and however they may.
8 comments:
I agree with you Anna! What's wrong with a kid having a little fun?!?
I couldn't have said it any better.
And...your kids are going to better, more productive adults - and they are going to remember what an awesome, fun mom they had growing up way more than they will remember their days in school...needless to say - I agree with you!
I love that Anna!! Isn't it sad that some just can't seem to think outside the box! My little Sadie has been quoted saying "sorry I'm a little crazy, it just runs in my blood." I would much rather have a crazy child then a dull one any day! All I can say is that you're teaching your children well!!:D Love EVERYTHING about it!
Your kids are so lucky to have you for a mom! I sometimes get so caught up in trying to force my kids to be something they're not, and your post was a good reminder to me to just let them be who they are!
Hi Anna! I did get your comment and I am sorry it has been a couple of months since you found my blog. I actually did go to your blog after that (2 of them) and LOVED reading about your life even though I don't know you. I forgot to leave a comment though!
I did tell Brandon hi for you too! I say AMEN to this post! This is totally my kids and I hate it when people say or look at them because they aren't acting like a "cut out!" But thank goodness we have been blessed thus far with teachers who have appreciated them for who they are and loved them despite others around them. Most importantly though, we as parents. As long as they know that we love and accept them, it will all work out.
Good job Anna for posting this, now just send the link to his teacher! And it sounds like you and I need to go dancing together! My all time favorite thing ever! I would quite being a nurse if I could be a back up dancer for someone!
oh, and I LOVED the ode to the ball sling. Couldn't stop laughing! That really needs to be published...
and there WILL be dancing. Yes there will be dancing!!!!!!!!! I love the "Good to Know". Don't worry though. You got her back with the note saying you told Carson he didn't have to do his homework. Oh yes you did!!!! hahaha
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